Journal entry... Stardate: Too damn long doing this...
Not much really today. W slept most of the day and I worked. Saw her briefly this morning when she got home. Spent the morning playing Kinect with my S, man he loves that thing (and it gets me some more exercise)! After work I headed to a volunteer meeting for GAL. It was good... the commander served us some dinner and we had a chance to recap the year. My unit is improving greatly, but the one thing we're not good at is social stuff (can you tell we're like 90% men?). That's going to be a goal for the next year... to increase the socialization of my unit's members. It will help my GAL and help the unit's morale all at the same time.
So now I have a confession to make... you may remember that our computer's nanny monitor caught some stuff when I was gone a few weeks back. When I got home I meant to uninstall it but never got to it. Then it caught a few Facebook chats and to be honest I've left it there. I know... snooping is not helpful, but for some reason I can't bring myself to uninstall it.
So today the nanny monitor captured a Facebook chat with her crush guy. He won't be in town for New Year's like she was hoping. He's actually spending it with his parents and son (as a side note... and I'm the no social life guy?). Anyway, I actually almost feel bad for my W after reading it. She's trying so hard to flirt and lure him. And as a guy I can completely read what he is saying. which is he's keeping a polite distance from the crazy. One thing I did learn is not to expect a midnight text or call from my W on New Year's Eve... oh wait, I wasn't expecting one of those anyway.
So I'm not sure what to do with it... the program that is. It doesn't really tell me much and it's pretty sparing she has FB chats. But it's kind of like a security blanket. I know most will say ditch it. Mr. Bond will likely say keep it... it lets you arm yourself for battle. I'll have to meditate on it. And yes, it works both ways... if I was having FB chats it would capture those too... well, I do have FB chats, but not along those lines. She's free to log in and check my records... though frankly I think she's forgotten it's even on here (she insisted I install it when SS got a FB page).
I think I may do a longer post next that contains some reflective thoughts that I need to put down somewhere. Overall an ok day. Ended the night with some more Kinect with S. Another night of the house to myself with S asleep. It's almost like I'm separated and have my S for his weekend on a night like this. Sort of a strange feeling.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD