After H left, I sent him a text saying:

M: Thanks 4 the hug. I needed that.

H: You got it, babe

Oh, when he was here, I had him to do a little job for me. I could have done it myself, but I wanted him to think that I really couldn't. See when were together, I handled everything from finances and to repairing things at the house.

H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)