Hey LB, I am in the exact same boat. I too am trying to figure out what my next step should be. All of this thinking is completely exhausting. I wonder if our spouses are driving themselves crazy thinking?? Considering my W is on the phone with the OW as we speak I am going to go ahead and assume that in my sitch she is not going crazy thinking about our R.

I want peace and serenity and all this angst is certainly not conducive to that.


So true!!!

Hang in there and thanks for posting on my thread today. I am just trying to figure out what to do so I haven't updated it.


M:(f) 35
W: 45
3 dogs and 2 cats
T: 9 years
9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you
OW confirmed 12/23/11