I have no clue as to what to do anymore. I read about others where they are separated but have more and longer convos than my W and I who are still under the same roof?

Going on 7 months and very little change. Next week I must hand in all required paper work to Ws L.

Today I felt for the 1st time that I no longer was a H or a father. Pretty sh!!Ty feeling. Felt left out no longer needed

I am very concerned that if W would want o fix this that I won't. II think we have hurt each other beyond repair. I am almost numb maybe is normal . Dunno


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden