Wow your sitch does sound very similar,we've actually been together 32 years we met when she was 15.My wife also sleeps in another room,she turned our office into a bedroom. I'm far from innocent in this whole mess,I was jealous and controlling and she finally had enough.It's sad that it took the bomb being dropped on me to wake me up. We have been told that we let our fear dance go on for way to long,me fear of abandonment and her fear of engulfment,bad mix. I am not giving up,still have a year and a half before our youngest goes off to college. And she is nice to me but of course I want more than nice.
Married 28 yrs Seperated 6 mths Rec D Papers 11/24 W Canceled D Moved Back Home 3/1/08 2 Kids D23 and S16 Trying 2 Put R Back Together
