DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)

[kolja]

My $.02 is to enjoy the good times, the positive interactions, for what they are.

When I have something like that, I enjoy it. I acknowlege that it MIGHT have positive significance down the road, but then again it might not. Trying to overanalyzing events like that keep me from enjoying and appreciating them - and, at least for me, tempt me to develop expectations that may or may not be realized. The real trick, at least for me so far, is to keep hope from BECOMING expectation!