I feel the same way...why spin my wheels over someone who has chosen something other than a life with me? I find that I'm motivated to detach and GAL more by this than by the thoughts of reconciliation.
At the end of the day, I suppose, the LBS's actions should and the outcome will be the same. The good part is that by being motivated by this I won't feel like a failure should he not return.
Perhaps saying "enough is enough", caring for ourselves, and leaving the door open just a wee crack is best?
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011
