SUPER PROUD of you for not being there we she got home!!! Such a huge leap forward for you!
I'm sorry that you 'see' someone different when you look at her, it's impressive that you are able to admit that you've been DBing for *her*, I think we all start out the way (he!!, I think I still am).
As far as confronting her, of you choose to do so- make sure it's not in the middle of an argument or other discussion. It should be done with a calm mindset so she won't instantly be defensive of you attack the subjet (did that make sense?! I think I rambled through what I meant, sorry)
I agree that you DO DESERVE better!! And I think you should continue to be a smart @$$- it IS a very attractive quality.... Witty, funny and smart, who wouldn't want that?!
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12