The common patterns among the situations on this board is actually quite amazing.

New OM is confirmed with my WAW. My unwavering emotional and financial support has been abused and I guess has been meaningless. I have called myself a fool here several times, and have been called on it, but it appears to be the truth.

My detachment is essentially complete. I don't think I would take my W back if I had the chance. She has been lying to me and disrespecting me for quite a while.

The high road is a lonely place.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012