I am done making changes for her because quite frankly I don't see us working this out. From here on out the changes need to be about me.
That's a big, and healthy moment. It certainly was for me, even though our situations are different. I still would like my wife and I to be able to work things out, but the EMPOWERING and healthy thing about the realization you mention is the realization that even if that doesn't work, I'm going to be not just fine, but BETTER, either way.
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12
