Of course its a fantasy he will wake up and man up and beg me not to go, sign up for counseling, fix all this and be the man i fell in love with. Yes, i want that. But i dont count on it, expect it or even dare hope for it and certainly not planning my life around it. My H is not that type of guy to swallow his pride and put me first. :-(


Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11