Well I survived Christmas. I got my S for 2 hours on Christmas Eve to take him to my Grandma's house to get my S present and play with his cousins. My W asked me to bring him to her dad's house which was awkward for me but did it with no problem. I got my S for the 2nd half of the day on Christmas and we opened presents at my parents house so they could take pics for me. The rest of my siblings came over for the rest of the evening with their kids and we had a great time together.
The next day my W asked what my S and I are doing. I said letting our S play with all his new toys. She asked if she could come over to see him which I said sure. I found it funny she wants to come over the day after Christmas but not do Christmas morning. More of the weird actions of a WAW. She stayed about 45mins and tells me she is moving to another apartment type place of another friend who is building it at their house. I told her ok and asked her about calling the counselor. She asked me to email the contact info which I did the next day. My W indicated she would need more kitchen stuff which I said ok. We discussed New Years plans which apparently she is going to Tahoe which sounds like she will be partying but oh well.
My BIL informed me that my W freaked out on him last Saturday to point that he was ready to leave their dad's house because my W couldn't take a joke. He texted me that he experienced what you must have have been experience for quite sometime. I just agreed as my W is always angry it seems.
I'm waiting for my W to call the counselor at this point. I'm not sure what she is afraid of about calling the counselor. I think she means that the counselor will force her to do things she doesn't want to do I guess, who knows. I will just keep trucking on I guess. Not sure how much longer I can keep doing this as I feel stick in neutral forever.
Me:29 W:28 S:2 M: 5 years Bomb: 7-26-11 Separated: 8-20-11 EA w/ multiple OMs W filed 1/2012
