I've been thinking about you and praying that her homecoming goes well.... I know that you've been anxious about today.

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If we truly love someone and want nothing more than for them to be happy than shouldn't we be willing to let them go if they are not?

WOW^^^^^. This is a HUGE leap for you! I bet you never thought you would say something like this? I agree with LB, this will probably come and go.... but it's a step in the detaching direction- something I have yet to really accept.

You have the tools and the strength to get through this, *choosing* to do this is the next decision.
Please post and let us know how you handled her coming back.

M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12