Only issue is that she's 43 and I've been setting my sights on the ladies more my age of late.
Umm...Wii, if you don't mind me asking - how old are you?
And what about her being 43 would be a problem? (Just curious, cuz it's an issue I've confronted in my own dating life. At first, I thought 6 years younger than me was too young lol. Since then, I've had a couple of much younger lovers, and my current boyfriend who is 9 years younger, feels just about right. He's 46 and I'm 55. But he's about to become a grandpa, and his oldest child is slightly older than my oldest, so we're at a similar stage of life.)
So - is a 43 year old a problem because she would have younger kids (but you do too, right?)? Or because of an assumed difference in libidos? Or because you'd like a woman who could retire with you in a few years? Just curious.