Soooo, things with husband were going along just fine. Then Christmas comes and he went to his home town. I expected it. We exchanged gigts before he left.

Today is our 9th wedding anniversy. Actually, it is our second 9th anniversy, we got married in a secret wedding in Las Vegas. Anyhoo, in Nov. was our actual anniversary and I said something and he got very distant. He did come over that night to play with the dog. I barely made eye contact.

Fast forward to today: I made no anniversary contact...Never mentioned it throughout our texts today. I just got a text that read:

"Happy anniversary...btw, I know you forgot"

ummmmmm no didnt forget, had wayyyyy to much to drink to even respond.

Takes? Suggestions???


me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14