I wish there was a better way to track people b/c it's 2's tracking me down that got me back here...anyhow...I think that' another reason I'll go and start a new thread of my own.
Okay first, I think that your w DID make a big deal about the phone calls and maybe OM is wigging out somewhere and lying...but I'd remind your w ONCE that you hope she'll be sure to follow up so you can move forward with trust.
No score keeping and Angel the reason I think Harrier ought to bring this up is b/c it's recent and of HER making...
as for the moving back in...ouch I am of mixed feelings. Money DOES matter so let's give that a point.
But I sure wish there were other reasons SHE alluded to but you let slide. Why not ask "like what other reasons?"
Finally, is there any way you can use this move and your reluctance to move back (which I suggest you DO SHOW her...don't look so eager, please....trust me on this)
to get her to Retrovaille?
you are not exactly in piecing but it's like you both want to be or at least you both want to see what you might rebuild
yet without her saying "yes let's put the foundation down"...and "then rebuild"
if you go to Retrovaille she does NOT have to commit to the m before going...she just needs to commit to going
and THEN discover what you are willing to commit to.
Let's say it turns out she wants OUT...then find out sooner rather than later.
But Harrier, Retrovaille will NOT make her want out...it will either save your marriage or prolong it.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
