I thought at first that I had clicked on an old thread when I saw your name. grin
*rubbing eyes to clear my vision*

Originally Posted By: kml
Mal -
Maybe you're overthinking this whole thing. Why don't you give yourself a month to just DO NOTHING - you don't have to decide anything. Just continue flirting and communicating the way you have been, and be patient. All will be revealed in time - avoid the urge to force an outcome.

Ellie

^this is excellent advice, especially the part about avoiding the urge to force an outcome. {Hi Ellie!}
I don't know if you recall Peanut from back in our day but I hear his voice in my head where the forcing of an outcome is concerned - *That which we pursue, retreats*. That being said; contacting him on occasion would not be considered pursuing but rather an encouraging action. Obviously there are no hard and fast rules to any of this.

Hang in there, dear lady.
*hugs*
~ swl

Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}