Thanks for your post Itsy, I could not agree with you more that the OW is just a nothing. I am slowly beginning to not give her any power. Being face to face with her was very empowering to me. Sometimes when we are not around the OW we get a false perception of them being "more" than we are. Coming face to face with her made me see how very insecure and pathetic she is. She is hanging on to my ex for dear life.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11