(Maybe 25yearsmlc can help me with this one, but all advice is welcome). I did some more research on Retrouvaille. The next program in the area begins January 20th, registration deadline is January 13th. I would really like to ask W if she would be willing to do this, I just got to figure out the time to do it and how to bring it up. Since it is over weekends, she may resist on giving it a try because of the conflicts with her work schedule. I go to IC on the 4th (my therapist said he wants to see both of us for a joint session at least one more time, but I haven't brought that up yet either). I was thinking bring it up after the IC session along with therapist wanting to see us both again? I could make it seem like it was therapist's idea? Only problem with that is it gives her a shorter notice. I am afraid to bring this up right now, as I don't want to mess up the positive interactions we have been having and also I am afraid of the rejection.


M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped