Good for you that you kept yourself in check. She sounds frustrated. Good idea about the mediation. My w and I decided to go that route, no papers have been filed yet.

Its one step forward, two back kolja, sounds like your attitude is just right for the long slog ahead of you, keep up the good work!!
S/F

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!