Hi Karen- I've had two sessions with Chuck already, the last one being just over a week ago (last Tuesday as memory serves). He suggested scheduling the third one if something significantly positive OR negative happened. Does yesterday's positive round of exchanges count as significantly positive, or today's resurrection of the divorce discussion, however brief, count as a negative?
Tongue planted firmly in cheek - do they average each other out?
I WILL say, at the risk of blantantly patting myself on the back, that the "this is all your fault" line in retrospect seems like bait - not sure if it was intentional or not - but not that long ago I would have defended myself (whether politely or more argumentatively would have depended on mood). This time I managed not to take the bait....
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12