Hey Autumn, I was actually just going to post on your thread and than I noticed you had posted on mine. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom.
“Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.” — Herman Hesse
This really is an amazing quote! Thank you so much for sharing it with me.
I am really sorry that your husband is putting you through all of this. I know exactly how it feels when they carry their phone everywhere and have a grin on their face when they are texting. When my W's phone rings my heart literally stops.
I have to figure out what I want. I no longer know if I want to DB, or better yet I will do it for me and my future. I no longer know if I want my M.
This is a very powerful statement because you are beginning to focus on you and what makes you happy. For me personally, it has always been easier for me to make other people happy than it has been for me to look inside and see what really makes ME happy.
I don't know about you, but cheating, lying and disrespect does not make me happy and like you and everyone else on this board I am hurt and angry.
I am thinking about you as well and I will be following up on your situation.
Try to hang in there as much as possible
M:(f) 35 W: 45 3 dogs and 2 cats T: 9 years 9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you OW confirmed 12/23/11
