What a ride huh? I told my W a few weeks ago that since she is divorcing me that it must be ok for me to date? What a mistake that was. She was really pissed. I bet your W will regret the day she said you should date others. I think our WAS think that the LBSers should follow Ghandi's celibacy world.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
LOL thanks Rick I needed a good chuckle. When my wife said I should date other people I said, "so you want me to go out there and sleep around." I was trying to get a rise out of her. Mission accomplished
I should really write a book on how not to DB. I have it down pat.
M:(f) 35 W: 45 3 dogs and 2 cats T: 9 years 9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you OW confirmed 12/23/11
I've been thinking about you and praying that her homecoming goes well.... I know that you've been anxious about today.
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If we truly love someone and want nothing more than for them to be happy than shouldn't we be willing to let them go if they are not?
WOW^^^^^. This is a HUGE leap for you! I bet you never thought you would say something like this? I agree with LB, this will probably come and go.... but it's a step in the detaching direction- something I have yet to really accept.
You have the tools and the strength to get through this, *choosing* to do this is the next decision. Please post and let us know how you handled her coming back.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
