This is something I've read over and over again about men. It is also the very thing my H does.

My H clamps down and doesn't voice what is bothering him. He has held things in for 22 years! There are times now when he will tell me his thoughts and then says,
"There, I told you how I felt." ...Like he is amazed at himself and it will be about nothing at all to me. Example was the way I pulled out into the road one day. He made a comment....I can't even remember it....and I was, "Oh...OK"

They are such little boys at times, they think we don't want them or love them or think they are important to us. H thought I blamed him for something that happened on our honeymoon 22 years ago.

I'd say something to him. What do you have to lose?

OH...and BTW I know I wished you a HB on the 26th because someone else posted they would take you out for dinner and I said I'd take you for a pedicure. What happened to those posts?!

M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29
S 22,21, 19
Bomb 4/10
It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013
We all have work to do


The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.