Well Kml, we spent nine days in a row meeting and greeting by email, which was an interesting and different experience. When we actually did meet it was very nice, we already knew a ton about each other. It was a really nice coffee experience. Obviously she was comfortable with me considering I have her phone number, email address, know where she lives, where she's moving to and where she works but apparently she's not up to going any further, fair enough. Actually, I have really enjoyed both my coffee meeting experiences. I had a third lined up but I cancelled it because the woman just seemed rather unmotivated and I decided not to drive 45 minutes for that so I politely backed out! What I did learn from this experience with Bookkeeper was that the possibility of being with a woman of faith excited me. I have a faith and I try to practice it and seek a further understanding of truth. I'd like a woman who is spiritual, which means more than just thinking of God when she sees a lovely sunset. She doesn't have to believe what I believe but I'd like to be with someone who sees the search as a part of her life. So, I learned something here. I, like Bookkeeper, do find this a difficult experience. I was never a "dater", someone who had to have a date or be with a woman. I've also had my share of pretty lousy experiences. So, seeking these dating experiences is a bit anxiety provoking and means I have to deal with a ton of rejection...and reject others which I don't like doing either! It ain't easy putting yourself out there but I'm doing the best I can with it.