Where to next?

[kat727]

That is a bit of a trap my ex and I fell into. He cheated on me for the first two years of our marriage while I was a flight attendant. I should have left then but he said he would never hurt me again, that he was sorry but he wouldn't talk about it. To him it was all in the past.

The rest is history: 4 kids, 21 years together, 19 of them married and at least two affairs on his part, though I suspect others. Not talking this out left a bad feeling in me. I just always had an off feeling whether it was real or imagined, I don't know.

You have to address this stuff. I know it won't be easy but your peace of mind is so important. The old foundation of your relationship has to be knocked away and a new, strong one has to replace it.

Big hugs, kat

I posted pics of Cooper on the alt.