I couple months ago I overheard (well actually I was listening in, but whatever) my wife's conversation with her best friend. She was talking about her old flame who is now the OW. She said that when she saw her (OW) she realized that this was the person that she was supposed to be with all along.
It completely broke my heart. I have been thinking about what unconditional love means lately. If we truly love someone and want nothing more than for them to be happy than shouldn't we be willing to let them go if they are not?
I truly love my W and she deserves to be happy as do I. I guess sometimes loving means letting go.
My W gets home tonight and I plan on going to get coffee when she gets here. I hope that you guys will keep me in your thoughts and send some strength my way so that I can begin letting her go.
M:(f) 35 W: 45 3 dogs and 2 cats T: 9 years 9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you OW confirmed 12/23/11
