I'm not sure I buy this "Oh, they don't know what they are saying." I mean, I might buy this to a certain extent, esp. w/my X as he has a progressive medical condition plus a lot of drugs, but I think healing does involve them taking responsibility for their own actions.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D