Asking for Help / Advice Please Part 2

[sunshine76]

Hey Edgarb, I have that very same sinking feeling about my R. LOL my wife is in a R with an old flame that lives out of state. She will never have the opportunity to see anything negative about this person. I have to accept that I can't control her relationship with this person. The only thing I can do is work on fixing the things that are wrong with me and to find happiness without her being a part of my life.

I know that a lot of it is that I want her to see me, but it really upsets me that she won't come see our dogs. They were such an important part of her life


The dogs are a reminder of her old life and I have a feeling that it may be to painful to come back and see them. If I have to move out of my house I will have to leave my dogs and cats with my W (breaks my heart). I don't know if I will have the strength to come visit them very often. I guess I am going to have to find it, but it is so much easier to just run away and try to forget the things that we love rather than being faced with them all of the time. Basically, it's taking the easy way out!