Down Again - Is he done yet?

[DestinyUnknown]

Thank you for that - looking for books that give me pointers on how to deal with an avoider, especially when I I am the confronter.

I had a great day at work yesterday. Got a lot of things done especially with almost everyone on leave. Since yesterday was a new day for me, while I did not exercise, I did start taking my anti-depressants again and I did somethings for me that I haven't done in a while. I love to cook and experiement with cooking - it calms me, makes feel really good about creating something different.

My H was already home when I got home. We were pleasant about asking about each other's day. He went to watch TV (he hasn't joined me in the kitchen for a few months). I am not sure what happened, but he came in and rubbed my back, poured me a glass of wine, and talked about general things. I had no expectations and just listened. After a while he asked if he could help me. He was smiling and even poked fun at me. I still have no expectations. I continued to back off and give him his space.

He sleep close to me last night (so much so that he was on my sideof the bed) - normally he complains that it is too hot and he needs space.

I continue to pray asking God to work on me. I feel really good this morning and I don't feel as worried about things as I have been over the last 2 months. Have a great day!!!