Really it is pathetic what they say. Their synapses are not connecting correctly. I really believe that most do not realize the impact that their words cause.

During my divorce trial, yes trial, ex wanted all the drama he could have and fought me for everything. In the middle of the trial he blurted out......"i hope your mother dies". I remember the bailiff saying "oh my god". My mother was dying from kidney cancer and in his sick mind he said that because he knew I would get an inheritance and then he thought he would not have to pay me child support...... wtf

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11