Last summer when h was in the heat of MLC crisis, we were driving into town and caught a glimpse of a man appearing to be in his 60's driving a sting ray. H laughed and said, "Oh man, he's got his mid life crisis car!" I tell you, I rolled with laughter, not at the old guy and his car but at H and how oblivious he was in that moment.
The night after BD and a trip to the ER to get my heart checked, since I have a heart cond. , I was still feeling upset, sitting in the bedroom crying and shaking. H came in and informed me that if I had a few glasses of wine, I might feel better and calm down. Thing is, he's known all of our lives together that I cannot drink due to the medication I take. He's known forever that it would kill me if I mixed it with alcohol. So, that was a pretty, wtf moment.
There are many more but it's just too much to list them. I know that when when they are on the MLC train, their minds are completely on themselves.
