I feel really bad right now for what I have done. Have I taken this dettaching thing too far. Am I pushing him away just as he is starting to seek me out again?
No, it's just that this is a new behavior for you and you feel what most LBS's experience (pushing the WAS away). If your WAH wants you bad enough to straighten up his act, he'll find a way. Don't be afraid. He needs to start getting a picture of what life would be without you.
Continue to remind yourself that if WAH gets you back too easily.....you stand the risk of going through all of this again, and probably much sooner than you'd think.
It is still true. You are a precious commodity that he is losing. Do not sell yourself short! You are worth the effort!
Hope has a point, and I would add this is not a tactic, this is not a game, this is life. It must be real.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
