(((Val))) I think you are thinking back when you were a doormat and trying for dear life to save the M. You now see your W's flaws and can not believe that you allowed it. That is so normal but remember that may be you are projecting out of hurt/healing What ever it is you have a right to feel but never do what I did, react on that anger. You are way ahead of me in growth.
Regarding the food thing I can relate. My W always gave me some veggies but she took most of it. That always pissed me off. I always asked to make more so I did not only get a tablespoons worth. She continues till this date. Hope you had the best Christmas possible
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
