The deaths are so long ago 3 & 4 years that I know it has part in our story but she says she has grieved and is over all that. Our therapist met with me today and said that my wife is so far gone the only thing that may wake her up is getting her out of the house. She goes out with friends and comes home late (430am etc..) and our kids wake up looking for mommy. I can't deal with that any longer. Trying to be patient but she brings so much negativity into the home now I'm afraid the therapist may be right. My W has seen the changes I have made and she is impressed but still feels nothing towards me. Ughhhhh
M40 W33 S5 D3 Together 10 Married 6 Bomb 12/8/11 Filed 12/27/11 Moved out 1/2/12