Grace, Love, Compassion, & Faith - It ain't easy!

[sunshine76]

Hey Val, I am sorry that are having a difficult time right now. I hope that your Mom is ok!! My dad was the same way so I understand what you were talking about. I stopped going home because it broke my heart to watch him treat her the way he did. This was a big mistake on my part because my mom was killed in a car accident 7 years ago and I will never get that time with her back. You can't control your father or your wife... just be there for your mom.

Remember that anger is not always a bad thing. Without people getting angry there would be no social change. I'm not suggesting that you stay in that mental state, but sometimes it is neccessary for change to occur.

I am thinking about you... hang in there.