When she gets home I could certainly start in on her... but do I think it would change her behavior? Nope.
You're right, not a good choice but neither is rescuing. I did it for a long time and it finally took my kids, yes my kids, to say, "Mom, there's a problem." Not my best parenting moment I can tell you. But as a result of that H got sober. And even if we are never together again, that's a good thing.
Not trying to bust your chops but you are a good man. You deserve good stuff. You are worth it.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
