What else could I have done?

[antlers]

OK. I need some feedback. I've known that my daughters have been around new guy quite a bit. Son, who lives with me, never has. New guy came up from Texas to spend several days at exW's for Christmas. Son has been over there to visit some every day for the last 3 days. He hasn't said anything about it, and I haven't asked. Tonight as I was coming home from work, new guy was dropping my son off at our house. It bothered me. New guy being at exW's has bothered me too. These are new feelings for me. They're uncomfortable to say the least. Son still hasn't mentioned anything about new guy, nor have I. I felt like crying about it while I was driving to the gym, but the tears wouldn't come. I'm numb right now. Guess I'm at a loss how to process this stuff.