Hehe thanks vc no cracks there, I can't believe I got to this point it was a very bumpy ride here.. What really helped me I think was when I accepted the things I could not change.. It all got better from there but that took some time.
Me: 28 H: 40 Together: 10yrs Married: 6 yrs OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011 I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011 H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012