Today I took S bowling with a couple of friends, stupid place we went to only allowed us one hour because of it being league night. S had a good time and so did I. We decided to go to Friendly's for dinner and ice cream. As we were leaving I got a call from W. She said that she got a text from me, I said yeah I got your reply saying you got it. She asked if it was alright if she stopped by to get her mail. I told her it was fine, but I wasn't home right now. She said, oh yeah you went out bowling. I told her how we were done and going to Friendly's. She said, oh I just passed the one at the mall as I left work is that the one you are going to. I said, yes. She asked if S had fun, he did. I then told her she could get the mail now or wait until tomorrow when I was home. She said she wanted to get it now, because the one was her credit card bill. She complained about the fees. I told her how she could join my bank (USAA) since she is a spouse of a veteran, and probably it would be the best banking for her. She seemed interested in the suggestion and I explained how she can go about doing it. That was pretty much it for conversation, so we said our good byes. We got to Friendly's, S only wanted ice cream, so it was a pain trying to get him to eat some of his dinner. All and all it was a fun time out. Love this time I am having with S. As I said before I am upset it took this separation for me to get more involved with him. I really do feel good. Not even really sure what else IC can do for me at this point. I know there is always room for improvement, and I want to keep going to IC at least once every month or two to make sure I keep on track. I do think that if I was suffering from any kind of depression, I am breaking out of that funk.


M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped