7 Years in. Time to give up ?

[DavidA]

Ok, fast forward. She left her husband / Nov 2010. I let her come home temorarily with the understanding that if she were to stay that we would be making some progress towards a new relationship which included individual counseling for her.

July 2011 started dissapearing overnight again with lame excuses about her girlfriend. August 2011 got caught in bed with her hairdressers boyfirend. September 2011 told her if she didn't want to have a relationship with me to find someplace else to live. Moved out a few weeks later.

Still doesn't have the guts to tell me she is living with new boyfriend. Lies to me and says she is living with girlfriend. Like I care anymore... And she still hasn't divorced her second husband yet..

Now I have the major change for me which is to completly end it all by selling the house and getting her out of my life for good. This is more financial and sentimental to me as I built most of it. No I can't afford to buy her out.

Still haven't found a reasonably sane lady to have as a friend or otherwise. I guess I'm not looking in the right places. Dating sites SUCK ;-) Happy New Year ! DavidA