Well grandma yes... grandpa... not so much My dad passed away almost 20 years ago. About four years ago my mom remarried... however, my mom is a "fixer" (hmm.. wonder where I got THAT trait from!) and boy did she find a reclaimation project. So yes... grandma definitely, she loves all kids and the kids love her to death. Keeping SS and SD in her life is one of my priorities in all of this, and thankfully my W agrees... she wants my mom to be a big part of their lives too. More so than her own parents (go figure... no, that doesn't make a hell of a lot of sense to me either).
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Wow, if you were able to maintain your composure when she got home you are officially my new hero.
Thanks! I'm pretty darn proud of myself actually. I really did maintain my composure. Beyond that I didn't really care too much. Yes it annoyed me, but it's her life. The kids are old enough to see. They know who was home when they woke up. They know who put them to bed. They know who made them breakfast.
My W is so lost right now. When she stumbled in at 7am I actually didn't feel anger towards her... I felt pity for her.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD
My dad passed away almost 20 years ago. About four years ago my mom remarried... however, my mom is a "fixer" (hmm.. wonder where I got THAT trait from!) and boy did she find a reclaimation project. So yes... grandma definitely, she loves all kids and the kids love her to death. Keeping SS and SD in her life is one of my priorities in all of this, and thankfully my W agrees... she wants my mom to be a big part of their lives too. More so than her own parents (go figure... no, that doesn't make a hell of a lot of sense to me either).