First post, words of wisdom needed

[workinghardguy]

Ignore it. It doesn't require a response and really doesn't warrant one. If you do text her back do it tomorrow and make it short.... something like "Thx. They're fine"

As far as getting mad about the charger thing... why wrap yourself around this? Maybe it is the truth. Maybe it's not... but does it really matter? Hell, she texted you back even if it was delayed. Take that as a small positive and move on.

Don't create rain clouds where they don't already exist.

And as far as her motivations for sending you off... again, don't mindread. If you want to go, go. If you don't, don't. But don't allow her and the OW to dictate what YOU do with YOUR life. Talk about still being firmly attached... let them go... and btw... if she's screwing some OW, she's going to find a way to do that whether you're on a trip or not. Don't delude yourself that your presence makes a difference.