Irma, glad you are doing well, haven't heard from you in awhile. Glad you had a nice holiday. If you are continuing to stand, consider some changes. Don't let him think it would be easy for him to come back i.e. "you can come back anytime" Having a picture of the 2 of you on your facebook profile, things of that nature. I'm not saying these things to be mean, I'm trying to show you some things to change, because they have not worked for you. Remember, we will not check on something we know will be there... Do you understand what I mean? Do some things and see what happens.... What do you have to lose? Next time he wants to come over, tell him no, I have plans..... Time to roll the dice a bit Irma.