Crimson I was there, but it wasn't for too long. The first couple of weeks was torture, I asked her questions and she kept the replies short. As time went on more eye contact was being made, and she actually seemed enthused to talk to me instead of cold and "why does he keep talking to me, I just want to sleep" expression. As I said the last morning we talked, we had to stop because I was running late for work, not her saying she was tired and wanted sleep. She sat next to me on couch instead of on floor or on chair. She now says "Have a nice day" to me. I think we moved along well, it hasn't been 2 months yet since the bomb, so I am lucky. I was lucky to find this sight when I did. I don't have to deal with an EA or a PA, which honestly I am not sure if I could. People here are so strong to be able to do that. I am also lucky our S is a connecting point. Every sitch is different. Thanks everyone for all your support, you give me a lot of confidence to keep moving forward.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped