I'm 24 and he's 25.

We checked out the 5 love languages while together. He needs to feel respected and wanted. He is a big cuddler. I pushed him away often. I can't exactly cuddle him now, but he can see that I'm cooking more (not that I have a choice, but I WANT to do it), I'm laughing more and letting loose more often. While he was here the other night I was dancing around to music and laughing. We were also joking around, teasing each other. He looked at me and said he missed that side of me for so long. Well, she's back!

Right now he seems content for me to be a friend that he flirts with. I'm glad he isn't despising me and not attracted to me, but I worry he'll never want to be committed to me again. That's probably reason enough to implement more boundaries.


M & H 25
T 9
D 7
S 4
Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me.
Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out
2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other.
3-4-12 H moved back in.
3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done