Ed you must get it together and don't let the depression be your master or you its dog. I know at 1st it is really hard but you have to stop persuing her. She must see a strong confident man, not weak. Imagine you begging and pleading to a girl on the 1st date? What would she say? Our WAS put lots of time and energy into justifying their actions and creating that wall. When you poke holes at that wall they don't like. The holes in that wall must be poked by them.
You must focus on you and be prepared for the worse and hope for the best. She must believe that you are moving forward with or without her. We are pulling for you
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
