"Also, as of tomorrow it will have been a week since she even MENTIONED anything related to the divorce, and it's been 10 days since we've actually discussed it."
Don't bring it up! Act as if it is a big elephant in the corner that you are trying to ignore. It is there but you are giving it zero attention.
Just keep focusing on your stuff, your 180's, your GAL, etc. and stay away from discussion about the D. Buy yourself as much time as you can.
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Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
