Bklyn, I forgot to add that my ex did not stop his horrible behavior until I told him that I wished him and OW the best of luck and I was done being treated horribly. I only responded to him when he initiated it and I began to treat him with unconditional love. He did not always return it, but that was ok with me because I am responsible for my own behavior. Now he appears curious. He still tries to push my buttons but it does not have any impact whatsoever. I let him know I disagree with things, but then I move on from the conversation. They want to battle it out so in their mind you are a terrible person.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
