Hey Guys. GALing means alot of different things to alot of different people. To me it means to do things that you like, hopefully some will be new activities. For example I attended a Divorce Care group, started going to church, I take rides to the ocean and read, I walk during work hours excercise more days, ride my bike etc... I also think that one must do things that makes us attractive. This will make the WAS wonder if you are seriously moving on and leaving them behind. You need not tell them what you are doing, remember you are single now and you WAS does not want an R with you(I don't mean to start dating). The one thing that has been suggested to me is to meet new people. Hard to do but nescessary.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”